Just Words..


It's hard to sit down and write. I've sat down so many times, hell I've written full posts that I can't bring myself to publish because they are long ramblings. So, here's a short blog post that I'm forcing myself to post in order to get the ball rolling again.

I've lived in a small town for almost a year now. It's been a life changing experience! Huge things like owning a house, owning and being able to drive a car (and using it regularly, because being waist deep in snow means it's my preferred method of transportation), caring for another living being (our adorable dog Hazel). Also smaller things, like skiing at least once a week and actually improving (I went tree-skiing for the first time the other day, marvellous!), gardening on a regular basis, learning home improvement skills, relaxing and being able to enjoy life.


There have of course been downsides, I haven't yet found proper balance and I feel like I'm sprinting through life most days and other days I feel like I'm doing nothing at all. We've reintroduced screen free days to get a bit more hold on our lives and enjoy more reflection. I've definitely taken on too much (because I'm so excited to finally be able to do all these things) and I desperately need to take a step back.

Life is a journey, and optimizing it not only takes time but is also hard, as life is constantly changing and often it's not within our control.


That's all I have for today.

La Vita è Bella

I'm sitting on the porch of my in-laws cabin in north Washington looking over the still lake while a fresh summer breeze brushes over me. I can't count how many times I've looked at my partner and said “Life is so great”. There's something about living here that just makes me feel so serene and satisfied with life.

Setting Goals and Settling In - An Outline for Progress

I've been back in Canada for just over a week and am settling in to this so called “New Life”. This includes learning to drive, re-igniting my love and dependence for the gym, finding a job, finding a house, finding friends (so much finding) and much more. The first thing I've noticed is that I have a lot more motivation to improve myself and my life. I've come back from an amazing 34 day trip to a magical country and it fueled my passion for not just traveling but many other hobbies that I haven't touched for a long time. A lot of this is quite hard while sharing an apartment with your in-laws with limited space and while I'm exceedingly happy here I'm itching to find a place to live so that I can dive into these many hobbies that I'll have so much more time for now that I've moved out of the big town.

Using Gratitude as a Tool of Frugality

Around the holiday season we often increase our thankfulness and gratitude. We're often grateful for our family and loved ones that we have around us. For those of us that are exposed to ads we're constantly reminded of how much we have by being told what someone else doesn't have. We are then asked to buy more, "treat yourself", "buy this for your mum", "buy this for your friends", "treat your family to this". It easily gets exhausting.

What Does a Month's Worth of Groceries for $55/Person Look Like?

Were you surprised with how little was spent on groceries in our household last month? Because transparency is important to me I thought I'd give a rundown of what our grocery spending looked like. For two people we managed a total of $108.91. We're going to look at the prices of the individual items, areas where we saved, areas where we probably should have saved more as well as techniques we use to shrink our grocery bill.

Frugal Fun Sobrember - Challenge!

November is normally a rainy, dreary month. I like to spend it cuddled up inside playing boardgames and watching movies. This is what makes November the perfect time for a challenge to shake things up a bit!

In my household we call it Frugal Fun Sobrember. A month where you have lots of fun while staying frugal and, wait for it, sober. This is a great time to find free events, play boardgames, hold movie nights or in other ways enjoy life without spending money.  

10 Ways to Streeeetch Your Food Budget

10 Ways to Streeeetch Your Food Budget

Money tends to be tight after the summer, with parties, eating out, travel, and general adventures it can sometimes feel like you're hemorrhaging money. Getting your food budget in check can be a great way to feel better about your finances and quickly whip your spending in to shape. I average out between $100-$150 per person in terms of food (including eating out as it's rare) for the month. I've noticed that this is fairly low in comparison to a lot of other bloggers, so here are some tips I'm a huge fan of that help me keep costs that low.